Monday Muse: The Leadership Lie: Why Performing Keeps You Stuck

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Authentic leadership isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about vulnerability, emotional intelligence, and the courage to be real. For decades we’ve been taught that good leaders are unshakable, but that lie keeps us exhausted, disconnected, and stuck in performance mode.

In this episode of the Monday Muse, I share why pretending confidence drains your energy, how ego-driven decisions create burnout, and why radical self honesty is the foundation of genuine leadership. You’ll learn how to shift from performing to living awake—building trust, resilience, and deeper connection with yourself and those around you.

If you’re tired of performing strength and ready to lead with authenticity, this conversation is your reminder that the leaders people want to follow are the ones who show up as human first.

Chapters |
00:00 The Lie That Keeps Us Stuck

07:43 The Cost of Performance

15:57 Awakening to Authenticity

21:05 Surrendering to the Process

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